Typically, individuals have numerous conversations on a daily basis, whether they are with friends, teachers, or even maybe strangers. During these conversations, you may realize other things about the person that are not necessarily available to the eye. For me, my most typical observation is narcissism, or being extremely self centered. Being self centered can mean many things, but it is most commonly defined as to be "independent of outside force or influence". So, is being independent of these outside forces a bad thing? While some would argue it is not a harmful ideology, I believe that it is.

Not giving in to opposing forces may portray an individual as strong, or vigilant. These traits are very important throughout life, as it is obviously very important for others to not give up, or allow others to sway their activities. However, there are certain cases of which it may be beneficial to be swayed, or influenced. One example that I see on a daily basis, is when there is a better way for someone to do something, that say, I have more experience with. Rather than them listening, and utilizing my knowledge that I am willing to share, they disregard it for their way. I am unsure of the reasoning why this happens, but I think it may be more-so an egotistical response.

While recipients of advice are given the opportunity to accept or decline the knowledge that is being shared with them, it is also up to the person that is sharing this knowledge to realize that maybe they, themselves, are incorrect. Life is a two way street, which is why it may be valuable to go through life with an open mind -- something that someone exhibiting narcissistic behavior may not exhibit. And no, this is not a call to be nice to others -- but rather to listen! It is still possible to listen, and take others for consideration, even if you aren't being nice.

Next time someone tries to offer you advice.. try listening! Even though it may be hard to accept that you may be wrong, it is impossible for one to know everything in life.. so do not fret! And besides.. listening to others may spark interesting conversations, as well as discussions which may result in an even greater impact than the point that was originally offered.